Often, married couple or dating for long time might degraded by time accordance. At first stage, everything was perfect! Communication is great, verbal or nonverbal is superlative. Start planning future together and love each other affections. Found everything is attractive and charming in your partner. You love everything and never imagine your love may suffer. Be in relationship is not always like FairyTales with happy ending. Sometime you might find your relationship drowning a bit but it doesn’t mean it should be end. Follow these golden rules, you might found yourself fall in love again:)

  • Listen. No skill is more valuable than knowing how to listen – and to listen without criticism. You’ll build trust and confidence in one another if you take the time to talk. It will be more meaningful and more powerful if you give your partner your undivided attention by turning off the TV or computer and making eye contact. These simple acts speak volumes. Listening also gives you a chance to pinpoint what the problem is and how to address it.
  • Think about the positive and not always the negative. It’s easy to focus on the negative (like your partner leaving dirty underwear on the floor). Think back to when you first started dating. What first attracted you to your mate? Think about those qualities. Teach yourself to counter negative thoughts with positive ones.
  • Express love frequently.Begin saying I Love You as often as possible. Let your partner feel the love again. This expression of love will bring the spark of affection back in your life.
  • Appreciate your partner. You may hate your partner more than loving them. But find out what you love about them. Do you like the way they dress? Do you like the way they drive? Do you like the way they talk? Do you like the way they communicate during tough times? Find out the smallest thing you like about your partner and appreciate them about that. This has a multiplier effect. When we begin disliking a person, our mind focuses on everything that is wrong. When we like a person, we ignore all wrongs and notice only the good points. This will help you ignite the spark in your dead relationship.
  • Start appreciate even little things.You may hate your partner more than loving them. But find out what you love about them. Do you like the way they dress? Do you like the way they drive? Do you like the way they talk? Do you like the way they communicate during tough times? Find out the smallest thing you like about your partner and appreciate them about that. This has a multiplier effect. When we begin disliking a person, our mind focuses on everything that is wrong. When we like a person, we ignore all wrongs and notice only the good points. This will help you ignite the spark in your dead relationship.
  • Don’t nag. Nagging creates an impression that you don’t respect your partner. While that may not be true, it can hurt your relationship. Talk with your partner about how a particular action bothers and affects you. Use “I” statements, such as “I feel” or “I think.” This helps your partner understand you better and vice versa without it putting either of you on the defensive.
  • Discuss problems together. Talk with your partners about his/her problems. Become a genuine friend and find out what is troubling them. That will make your partner feel that you are concerned. When you listen to their problems, you may find lot of truth in that. Try to do what ever you can to solve the problems and never let your partner feel lonely.

It never be easy for me either. I’ve been known C for quite sometime and we still in learning stage. It never too late or too soon in relationship. Remember.. you must believe and never give up.🙂
copied from:ezine articles and HealthAtoZ

a great song, soundtrack from P.S. I Love You: Love you till the end – the pogues